In the public interest.

The breakdown of parental love and its impact on children is little discussed in respect of a societal, political and economic failure to nurture the human condition. The primary media/welfare focus is on domestic violence and Intervention Orders separating rather than resolving conflict. This creates more vulnerability for children and economic hardship when partners split.

The demonstrated love between men and women is critical for the resiliency and reaching the highest potential of this species. Until they view each other as equal in opportunity (both sexes) they will become power struggles in endless battles. Seeds of this rivalry are planted by the movie industry, magazines, patriarchy and unquestioned role modelling where one is seen as inferior to the other.

Whenever inequality is ignored and considered normal imbalance inevitably follows. This inequality can be female-male or male-female. Masculine-feminine energy can be the dominant orientation in the opposite sex.

The masculine energy was never meant to be about domination, it was meant to be about action, hierarchy, left brain cognition, structures, assertiveness, supporting, supplying etc. It was not about superiority, domination, control or totalitarianism in the home. This creates insecurity, suppression, ill health and inhibits growth. The feminine was about nurturing, receptivity, sensitivity, healing, right brain creativity, service, emotions and relationships. It was not about submissiveness, timidity, fear, insecurity, hyper vigilance, and service as a chain or servitude.

The imbalance is not natural and therefore creates imbalance within the human condition pinching off the great potential that lay dormant like a seed awaiting germination in uniting the feminine and masculine.

We are great and all have a purpose. Our job is to nurture the greatest version in each partner rather than compete or put down to feel power. That is the natural order.

Children’s pain and confusion is not discussed enough to look at how they are impacted by parents fighting, parents ignoring each others needs and their general unhappiness. It impacts kids deeply as all they want is for their parents to love each other.

Other forces have come to play to divide the family. Sexual promiscuity happens when people are seeking to find a partner. There are issues around taking on another’s energy particularly if they are traumatised. It is not wise to exchange energy with multiple partners in the name of freedom. Whilst the extreme opposite is also not helpful in finding the ‘right’ mate as sexual relations are entered into after marriage. The divine order is to express sexuality as you feel it providing it is mutual consent and not about self gratification but to celebrate the love driving sexual union. This then plants the right seed when partners decide to bond for life (natural order).

The breakdown of relationships may be due to economic pressures, lack of parenting skills, lack of community/family support, infidelity and then sense of isolation and loneliness.

There needs to be a global conversation on what constitutes strong relationships, the importance of love in union and to work at growing together, particularly when children are witnessing adults modelling human behaviour in relationships. There needs to be more guidance, wise counsel, courses on parenting, relationships, counselling, emotional intelligence, communication, and loving the self first to then be able to love another. Then when a child is brought into the world, that child has needs fulfilled so they do not grow up believing they are a lot less then they are. Thus passing the sins of the parent to the child. Sin in this case is really errors, lack of love, incorrect role modelling, insecurity, power games and so on.

The relationship between women and men is critical for the future peace of our world. We do not want to bring in more damaged children who sit in front of devices rewiring neural networks to be observers not participants in this very dynamic and exciting dance of life. Life is to be met head on, to be challenged, to be questioned, to be experienced in the highs and lows without anti-depressants or intoxicants and drugs. All emotions must be expressed fully so they do not become toxic turned within and trapped in the muscles leading to dis-ease. Health is about living a fully human life.

This song is called ‘I’ll be There’ it is the song for couples to live this mantra as a truth and then work on it. Relationship is an exchange, it is not about making the other feel loved. It is about loving yourself and allowing love to blossom naturally. It is about supporting each other and being there in sickness, crisis and in health.

It is a true partner who walks with you without conditions, that is, in unconditional love. Then the children watching learn how to deal with a complex life that is about learning and growing to find confidence and joy in life so they too can be happy.

Leadership leads by example to create infinite possibilities. When both are leaders, leading themselves to higher perspectives.

In truth our happy destiny is unavoidable.