I sit here watching Long Lost family (ABC TV) and how people react to meeting for the first time after a lifetime of separation. This is about where children have been adopted for a range of reasons. They worry they weren’t loved. The mother’s fret that they will never see their child again. Yet when they see photos and letters they see the immediate family resemblance and cry. The love is so strong and it is spiritual.

I then contemplate the world of men and war and constant disruption for profit and it is seems so out of touch with the human condition as if on a separate planet.

There is no understanding that when we hurt people through business or personal issues that it matters. There appears no real understanding of when cities are bombed, like Kiev (Ukraine) and Gaza strip in Palestine. The cameras capture blown out buildings as if somehow normalised when it is man’s inhumanity against families. I can’t understand the disconnect and coldness around harming and killing people. How is it possible to not feel for people? To not see your own family in their family, how you would feel if someone bombed your home?

I see the money that is spent on Defence but not welfare, as if the latter is ‘useless eaters’ who make no money as the financiers dominate the realm of value, yet they understanding nothing of true human value that has no price tag.

I am glad I was born a woman and feel my feelings, cry in compassion, look around at my community with love in my eyes, even as they look at iPhones and connect less and less, I know they have been disconnected. Fortunately I’ve lived a full life, travelled the world and worked in lots and lots of places. I’ve met so many people from all walks of life and found myself better off for the connections.

So when I see a New World Order by those who think money is superiority, I just look at that unable to understand how they can’t see the beauty.

There is another program where people play piano, they come from all walks of life. The truth is there is so much potential in people, so many gifts, so many abilities that are not given full empowerment too. All my life, even as a child, I saw the potential in people. I’ve been amazed how incredible all people are. Yet it gets tainted by discrimination, tainted by class, tainted by income inequality or whether you live in a home or not. I see so many trivial divisions that lead some to despair and drugs or alcohol to cope with life.

Our schools whilst staffed by amazing teachers, our system does not develop our personal talents but tend to force people into sameness learning things that don’t inspire. Education becomes a chore rather than an uplifting inquiry.

When I taught as a clown the kids were all engaged, they laughed a lot, played, learned, critically enquired and never forget the peace clown. No child could get in wrong in my class, they could only enjoy the class and play with the clown. It so worked, it was a wonderful experience for me and the kids. Yet the schools didn’t support me in continuing so unfortunately REAL HOPES was a temporary phenomena when it had the potential to really educate kids in emotional intelligence which is what solves the endless bullying and conflict so many other invest in as a means of control.

I see our world as so immature, particularly the males who don’t seem to get the importance of learning how to communicate feelings, to learn to really listen and to value gentleness, kindness and wisdom. This is not to say there are not men that do feel this, they are out there, but very rare. The same applies to women to stop controlling, learn to lighten up, really accept others for who they are and maybe work out a team plan to raise kids in ways that are fun, positive and not exhausting. So much both have to learn if children are to not go through all the drama, unhappiness, broken relationships, drugs and so on. Too many influences breaking families, teaching abuse via actions, not feeling sensitive to how others feel and working towards the highest good for all. As people do this it comes back to them via life in some way. Life is always mirroring what you send out. So few understand ‘what you think about you bring about’, ‘you see as you are not as others are’ and negativity is the body’s message that you are not aligned with inner truth. What people do is rather than look into what we think, we blame others and hold grudges as they made you feel x,y,z. When in truth you chose thoughts that made you feel what you felt.

No-one can impact your feelings unless you agree on some level. When we believe the world is what television tells us we are listening to other voices. When we look outside our own window we realise this is our world.

No-one knows the world, no matter our research we only see fragments. Even owning Twitter now X, the programmers can’t know the whole. What I do know is that people are intrinsically good but can be influenced by other voices when constantly exposed to the ideas.

We are here to learn to remember ourselves. To find quiet and really explore what makes us truly happy. It is our nature to be happy not anxious. Fear is false evidence appearing real. In truth we live in a loving universe that simply mirrors to us our own beliefs. Until we question beliefs we can be controlled by unquestioned beliefs which can leave us with low levels of unhappiness and then this is transferred to others via irritation, anger, conflict and separation.

So the place to find peace in this world, is within ourselves. It is a truism that ‘the truth sets you free’ from misery. Truth arises joy when it is genuinely true. If it makes you unhappy then there is something you do not know about life, the knowing of which changes everything.

I send love, peace, joy to the world I imagine out there. I encourage people to question negative thoughts (see www.thework.com) and to resolve conflicts to enable negativity to release and grow as a person. May you come to accept who you are and know you are perfectly imperfect. There are no people who are a waste of space, none that don’t deserve to live, and no mistakes in life. All comes for us not against us, no matter how it seems.

I feel no enemy, no matter critiques, I feel no-one I hate as I would be the same if I was them with the same influences, and a belief that for some reason we have to take the journey we take for the highest good.

We are all here to re-member who we are.

In the End there is only beauty.

When we reconnect joy arises as this is the purpose of life. We are indeed all ONE.

May you be happy.